I put in my two week’s notice at my full-time job.
All my life, I’ve considered different career paths. Many things jumped out at me… a dolphin trainer, a news anchor, a high school English teacher, a public relations professional. Each one intrigued me, but didn’t really excite me.
When I graduated from college with a degree in advertising and public relations and a minor in marketing, I found myself working in the public relations and marketing field. I quickly learned marketing and living by sales numbers was not for me and I gravitated toward tasks that involved writing.
Brochure and magazine content, press releases, e-newsletters. These were my favorite assignments.
After almost two years in the real world, I realized I wanted a career in writing. I accepted my current job in December 2008, excited to write website content for two large sites, even if the topics weren’t ones that peaked my personal interest.
The Beginning of Blogging
In 2008 I discovered Tina’s blog, Carrots ‘n’ Cake, while reading an article she wrote on Health.com. Her blog led me to discover the healthy living blog community and I immediately fell in love with blog reading. It wasn’t too long after I began reading blogs that a little voice in the back of my head started telling me to start one of my own.
In September 2009, I began Peanut Butter Fingers, thinking it would be a fun hobby that would serve as an outlet to write about topics that interest me – fitness, food and living a healthy, fun-filled life. I figured a blog would allow me to share recipes with friends and family while also providing me with a space to write every day where I could work on my personal voice and writing style.
I never really expected anyone to read it.
In the beginning my readers included my family and Ryan. I began participating in the blogging community by commenting on blogs. Slowly but surely people began commenting my blog and stopping by Peanut Butter Fingers regularly. I was so excited to hear from readers and receive comments from bloggers and the sense of support and genuine care that I felt from people that I had never met in real life was unbelievably moving and motivating. I kept on blogging, looking forward to sharing my life with my small amount of readers three times a day.
A Passion Begins
As the months rolled by, I found myself enjoying blogging more and more. Blogging was my “me” time. It allowed me to write and reflect. To share, laugh, learn and grow. I fell in love with my hobby and felt something inside of me.
I felt a passion begin to form.
Prior to blogging, I never really knew what I wanted to do with my life. I had ideas and career paths that sounded okay, but nothing lit a fire in my heart and brought me to life. Until blogging.
The idea of blogging for a living crossed my mind many times. It didn’t seem like a realistic goal, but it became my dream.
And now it is my reality.
My dream is coming true because of you and your readership… and my heart overflows with gratitude for the support you provide to me every single day.
So, What is My Plan?
I don’t want the core of my blog to change. I have worked very hard to build a blog I am proud of and will strive to keep it that way.
While my blog will serve as my “backbone” and is allowing me to take the plunge and leave my full-time job, I am not depending solely on my blog for income. Not at all. In fact, I hope freelance work is what inevitably keeps me afloat. I have been actively pursuing freelance writing opportunities and my desire is to continue to seek out freelance work regularly.
Throughout the past several months, balancing my blog with my full-time job became too much. I wasn’t pouring all of my efforts into either my blog or my job and I felt like I was spread too thin, approaching both my blog and my job at half-speed. My love for my full-time job, which I absolutely adored in the beginning thanks to fantastic coworkers and a wonderful office environment, began to lose its luster and didn’t ignite me like it once did. My commitment was first and foremost to my full-time job, but that caused me to turn down freelance writing opportunities that I otherwise would have poured myself into because I simply did not have time to maintain my blog daily, work full-time and balance freelance work. I also couldn’t provide my blog with the attention I longed to give it every day.
My blog consumed my thoughts… in a good way. I found myself thinking about things I wanted to share on my blog all the time. Unfortunately I didn’t have time to implement the exciting ideas I have for my blog or complete backend work on my blog (coding, aesthetic changes, etc.) because my free time away from my job was dedicated first and foremost to simply writing daily blog posts. I struggled greatly with feeling like I was not giving my best effort in my everyday job or my blog.
Finally, after many, many in depth conversations with Ryan, I knew I had to make a decision.
My decision was to take a chance and follow my heart.
Two weeks ago I decided to put all my eggs in one basket and take a leap into a career in blogging and freelance writing – a career that excites me, energizes me and terrifies me all at the same time. I am a planner and not really a risk taker by nature, so this transition will be the biggest leap of faith I’ve ever taken in my professional life.
Never in a million years did I think I would not work in an office environment. I thrive on a schedule and have always been hard working and ambitious, thinking about how I can benefit a company and grow to my full potential. Though now I will technically be reporting to myself, I plan to work hard and keep my current schedule. I will still wake up with Ryan early in the morning, go to the gym, walk Sadie and head to work by 9 a.m. – only my work will be freelance writing projects (or actively pursuing freelance writing projects) and dedicating time to making Peanut Butter Fingers a place on the internet that you want to visit.
I have so many ideas and thoughts running through my head and I cannot wait to continue to share my life with you every day.
I am scared… but I am thrilled. I have never, in my entire life, felt this passionate and excited about a career path.
I feel like I’ve finally found where I am supposed to be.
Gretchen @ Honey, I Shrunk the Gretchen! says
Julie, I am so proud of you. This is amazing! You really are living the dream, and it couldn’t be happening to a more deserving person. I can’t wait to see where you go (and grow!) from here!! 🙂
Julia K. says
I’ve been trying to catch up with your posts, after being tied up on making a blog of my own. I must say, Julie, you are an inspiration and a wonderful writer. No one can ever be like you, and I know that you will do great, and be successful in your new path! I’m so happy and excited for you. I cannot wait to read more of your future blog entries, and all of your other works! Sending you lots of love and good energy, from NYC! xoxo =]
Lisa @ lisalettinggo says
I just caught up on your blog from last week because I was on vacation. Wow, big things happening for you!!! Congrats…your blog is such a thrill to read every day and I’m really happy for you that you’re pursuing your passion. Good luck to you and I look forward to many many more awesome blog posts 🙂
Susan says
A veryvery belated congratulations!!! I always try to live by the philosophy that you’ll never know what could happen unless you try. You are totally motivated AND passionate enough to make a go at this. Here’s to never having to “work” again, and instead just doing something you love every day 🙂
Alex says
How inspiring! I am new to the blogging community but have found quickly that it is a community I can share my thoughts with freely. It’s so comforting to be apart of a group of people who, despite being divided by computer screens, ultimately want the same things: overall health and happiness through fitness and food. Loving this. Thank you!
LUCIANA says
Dear Julie, you are such an inspiration! I am from Portugal (born and live in here), and I dicovered you blog by chance, and I´m loving it. I try to read your previous post (a little bit every day), and I am enjoying it at most! Wish you all the best on this new project. We believe in you!
Barbara says
Congratulations Julie! I had a feeling this was the news you were alluding to! I am honestly 100% behind you and very excited for you! I cannot imagine how scary this must have been! I wish you nothing but success. You are following your dream, and nothing is more inspiring! xoxoxo
Sending you big hugs!!!
Barbara
Kim @ Imperfectly Perfect says
Congratulations on taking a leap of faith to pursue your dream, Julie! I know exactly what you mean and have an inner tug of war going on within myself. Currently, I work at a great company with a wonderful group of people; however, I know that isn’t my calling. Seeing you and Tina (of Carrots ‘n’ Cake) make the leap gives me hope for myself. Wishing you nothing but the best! ~Kim
Lauren says
My dream come true! My ultimate goal is to quit my job to blog full time. I was unemployed for 4 months and put all my energy into my blog. It was the best 4 months I’ve ever had career wise. I blogged, recipe tested, spent 2 hours/day working out, and ran around the city in my lulu lemon outfits. Not only was I happy but I was in the best shape of my life. Gosh those were the days. I also threw a charity event for eating disorders to celebrate the 1 yr anniversary of my blog. I would have never been able to do that if I was working full time. For income I freelanced and worked for my family business which helped me stay afloat. Freelancing pays so well!
Julie, you made the right decision and I can’t wait to see what you do with your site! xoxoxo
Lauren
Nicole says
Hi Julie! I started reading your blog a couple months ago when I came across it through Carrots n Cake. I read it usually once or twice a day, but somehow I missed this post until today! At first I was thinking that you took off time from work while you and your hubby are in the process of moving… but then I was thinking that it seemed like you hadn’t been to work in awhile! I’m glad you included a link to this in your post today so I know what’s going on now!!
Anyways, I see a lot of parallels between your life and mine. I also majored in PR and I’m currently working from home for a PR agency. Writing is my favorite part of it all as it was for you, but I’m definitely not passionate about my job. I often think about what I could do work-wise that would make me love the work, not just do the work because it pays the bills. I also have a passion for food and exercise. And I have a very lovable dog too (and a great hubby as well!). I read your blog because I feel like I can relate to you in a lot of different ways. I feel like I’m in that stage that you were in when you were reading other blogs and considering starting one of your own. I feel so happy for you that you’ve decided to follow your heart – I feel like you definitely have what it takes to make writing & blogging a successful career. So best of luck to you in your new ventures!!
rupsi says
Hey loved ur blog evn i have felt the same tht my interest lies in blogging and reading…got a kick start from ur story…thanx..:)
Nicole @ http://healthygirladventures.wordpress.com/ says
As I mentioned on my previous comment I love to write as well. I hope one day to take the same path. I loved to write ever since I was a little kid. In junior high, high school and college I was on the newspaper staff. I dreamt of writing for a living. However moving to a big city like New York or LA just wasn’t right for me. I love living in my town here in Florida and would never move away from my family. I’m so glad of all of the opportunites we writers now have because of internet. I am so happy for you Julie. You can live our your writer’s dream. (BTW I too started reading Tina’s Carrots and Cake). Its been about a year since you started working fully on freelance and the blog. I hope you are enjoying this time. Blogging freely about your passion can ignite the soul. Good for you to live our your dream. And THANK YOU for passing along tips to others on blogging to help us one day do the same. I just started out on my blog and I picked up a freelance job. right now I’m being stretched so thin- I work 2 partime jobs during the day and then blog and freelance at night. We’ll see where it takes me. Here’s to you Julie and another year of adventures of blogging. 😀
Bri Carpenter says
Wow! I just read this and can’t help but think “Good for you!!!” I think its so much better to be in a job and place in life where you are truly enjoying it than working just to work. I just found your blog today and I think its great. Thanks for putting in all the effort you do!
Ashley says
Hi Julie!
Just wanted to say I love, love, love your blog, and have been hooked ever since I stumbled upon it a few months ago. Your passion for healthy living is so inspiring and I look forward to reading your new entries daily. I had a question about how you started your blog. Did you build it out yourself in the beginning or did you have a designer help you with the layout? I recently started my own blog, but its in the very early stages, and have dreams to someday make it look as beautiful as yours, but don’t know the programs well enough to do so. If you have advice about making a blog come to life visually, it would be much appreciated!! Keep up the great work!!
Julie @ Peanut Butter Fingers says
i had help from the blog fairy: http://www.emilywhitedesigns.com/
i hope this helps!
Janna says
Julie,
I have never read a blog before in my life, but I am truly glad I happened upon yours! I am a 23 year old from Canada, who just graduated college and I am currently going through the “Lost” stage of my life. I am not sure what I am working towards right now or if i am even moving in the right direction.
Your blog is an inspiration! I too believe that we eventually get to where we need to go, and it is such a relief to read about someone who has gone through this stage in their life, followed their heart, and made it out the other side. I am just hoping I can be as brave as you some day.
Thank you !
Ashleigh says
I found your blog yesterday on Skinny Runner and I love it! That is so awesome that you followed your heart and now goin why you love! Major props to you!!
I have recently started my own blog and noticed that one of your posts said that you contacted local Orlando papers to get your blog out there. My hubs and I used to live in Orlando, but found that the tourists and everyday craziness of I-4 was not our thing, so we are now in Clermont. What papers did you reach out to? I’m trying to get more readers, not for “popularity,” but to help them in their struggles of weight loss, like me.
Again, love your blog and congrats on following your dream!!
Julia says
I found your blog through Carrots n’ Cake and I love it! I am also a freelancer and in grad school for counseling AND trying to figure out my career path. phew. I was a journalism/pr major and like you, I’ve thought about a lot of jobs that would be fine, but nothing excites me yet. Maybe blogging would be a healthy, fun outlet for me as well! Keep up the good work and thanks for the motivation!
Kristina says
I just found your page through Old Navy and your story sounds so similar to mine, except I haven’t gotten to the freelance writer part yet. I’d really just love to write all the time! Where do you go to find your work? Thanks for your blog!
Kate @ quartercenturysouthernliving.wordpress.com says
Here I am, commenting on a post written almost a year and a half ago. So, I’m a little behind. Oh well. I cannot tell you how much this speaks to me and inspires me. Your honesty is so refreshing. Thank you so much for sharing this. I hope that someday, I have a similar story to share.
Hillary says
Just came across your blog through Pinterest and love it! I’m definetely inspired by your decision to leave a full-time career to pursue your true passion. I’m in the exact same boat although I haven’t found my “true” passion yet but I know it’s somewhere out there! Also, thank you for posting the treadmill workouts!
Brittany says
Hi Julie! I love reading your blog! I check it everyday and appreciate the updates from twitter. I’ve read this post many different times and each time it inspires me to blog. I do have one but have neglected the poor thing because I work a full time job and come home with little to no energy at the end of the day. The energy that I do have I spend it playing with my dog. I completely relate to this post because – more than anything – I would love to blog for a living, teach nutrition, and be a personal trainer. Those are all happy and positive daily activities that I would love to do. This is really inspiring and I really admire your courage to take a risk on yourself. Keep up the amazing work 🙂
bright and beautiful says
Julie, thank you for this post and always keeping it real! I’ve been a reader of yours for years and your approach to blogging helped inspire me to create my own blog. Keep up your amazing work! 🙂
Emily Green says
Hi Julie,
Luckily, we have a mutual friend, Michelle, who pointed me in your directions. So glad she did! I’m new to PBF but am enjoying reading your posts & hearing your story.
Thanks for putting yourself out there.
Warmly,
Emily
Jodi says
Great story, very inspiring. I can relate so much. It does take a huge leap of faith to pursue something different and out of the box. Good luck to you and your continued success!!
Dottie says
I just recently found your blog and I love it! I am trying for a serious career change, and I’d like to get into blogging and freelance writing. If you have any suggestions for someone who’s a total newbie for starting to get freelance writing jobs, that would be amazingly helpful and I would really appreciate it. Thank you!
Kiki says
I love your story, its truly inspirational. This is something I’ve been wanting to do for a while, leave my job and devote my time to what I love doing freelance writing, and providing marketing, advertising and content strategies for start-up bloggers and businesses. This is my passion. I’ve been in my job for the last 7 years struggling to balance the 8 hours I spend behind a cubicle with the 3-4 hours I devote to blogging at night (my blog, others blogs, responding to comments, research, etc).
I commend anyone that can step out on faith and make that type of committment. I think perhaps if I had some savings somewhere that I could fall back on then I wouldn’t be so fearful of making that leap yet. Between car payment, rent, utilities, other bills, and being a single woman I just don’t have the means to take that leap. I wish I had that courage!
Stephanie Benton says
Julie,
I am so glad I am reading this post today (4 years later!). In 2 weeks I will be laid off from my corporate job as a Social Media & Communications Manager. I also just finally launched my own blog last week. I have been involved in the fitness industry for quite some time, am a Pilates instructor and working on my CPT through ACE. I hope to grow my blog over the next few months while on unemployment. I was planning to leave my corporate job soon so I think the lay off came just when I needed it. Thanks for this post, you’re an inspiration to me for sure, I have been following your journey for a long time. I hope to be where you are sometime soon <3
Thanks,
Stephanie
Jenny says
I know commenting on an old post, but this post had 666 comments and I thought I couldn’t leave it like that so I am making it 667. Your welcome 🙂
I’ve been an avid reader of yours for several years (I’m talking pre-wedding here) and I am thinking of starting mine own blog and I am researching some of your blogging articles.
Thanks for all the help and info! I’m still feeling a bit overwhelmed, but at least I have a better idea where to start. Have fun with that cute baby!
-Jenny
Ajey says
The blog post is truly heartwarming and inspiring. It reminds us of the positive impact we can have on others, even through small acts of kindness. It’s a beautiful reminder to spread love and positivity wherever we go, and to never underestimate the power of our actions. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful post!