Friday
Friday night, our evening plans took us to Birkdale Village, a large outdoor shopping center with lots of restaurants and shops, where we planned to enjoy some live music outside, grab dinner at Cava and meet up with friends for ice cream.
We had a feeling my father-in-law, Greg, would love Cava and he was a huge fan. Do you guys have Cava near you? It’s a Mediterranean-inspired fast-casual restaurant where you customize various bowls (salads, grain bowls, etc.) and even though it’s relatively new to our area, it already seems incredibly popular. We love it in our house and enjoyed our meals before we joined our friends for some dancing in the drizzling rain and ice cream.
Greg offered to snap a picture of our group of friends and I think this is the first pic we have of ALL of us with our kids! If you’re a regular reader, I’m sure you recognize these faces, but they’re the families we met when our first kids were only a few months old and we’ve loved watching our children grow up together and our families expand. They’re the best and watching our children play and care for each other so much warms my heart!
Saturday
Our Saturday began with pancakes, a walk around the neighborhood and some park playtime before Ryder needed a nap. We used his nap time to get organized for an afternoon on the boat and once he was awake, we headed out!
We anchored the boat near a beach where we could all swim, splash and play and it felt great to seek some relief from the summer heat in the water and watch the boys have a ball.
Sadie was in her element!
By the time we made it home, Ryder was ready for another nap and while he slept, I placed an Instacart order for food for a cookout and hung out with Ryan, Greg and Chase. Our friend Ben joined our crew around 5 p.m. and then we fired up the grill and made chicken thighs (marinated in my favorite Paleo chicken thigh marinade), Ryan’s burgers, cucumber salad (I followed this recipe and it was excellent), baked beans and green beans.
Greg and Ben share our intense love for ice cream so we had to wrap up our cookout with a little ice cream buffet! Between the four of us and Chase, we demolished all three containers in one sitting and I wish I could say that was a challenge. Ha!
The boys both went to bed on the early side which gave me and Ryan some adults-only time with Greg and Ben and we hung out and chatted until we were all ready to call it a night.
Sunday
Ryan and his dad took Sadie on a long walk in the morning on Sunday and by the time they made it home, the boys were up and we were all ready for breakfast. We ate oatmeal and made the most of the last of our time with Granddad before Greg had to hit the road for Florida.
I know the boys really loved having an extra playmate all week and we are so grateful Greg took the time to drive all the way up Charlotte to visit us.
Once we said goodbye to Greg, we piled into Ryan’s car and made our way to My Gym for the siblings class. We planned to meet up with our friends Laura and Steve and their little ones at the class and the kids all clearly had a blast.
The rest of our Sunday included a long walk around the neighborhood with a break at the lake to feed the fish and a stop at the park for playtime.
It was definitely warm outside but thankfully the shade provided a little reprieve from the sun.
The warm summer weather brings out Chase and Ryder’s red faces and Ryan and I joke that our boys were pretty much guaranteed to be red-faced, sweaty kids since both of us turn bright red and sweat a lot from our faces.
When we arrived back home, Ryder napped again and then we spent the rest of the evening making homemade pizza and doing the shower/bath/bedtime routine before putting the boys down for the night. Ryan and I headed to be to read soon after and once again I was up way too late reading! I am almost done reading The Seven or Eight Deaths of Stella Fortuna and it is the kind of book that’s disturbing but engrossing.
As for the week ahead, it will be another busy one! Chase has been all done with summer camps for a while now so I’ll be hanging with both boys and sneaking in blogging when I can. Hope to chat with you guys again soon! Have a great week!
Andrea says
Yay! I’m so glad you are liking it! Disturbing and engrossing is definitely a great way to describe it, it’s such a different read!
Julie says
Thank you for recommending it to me!
Pamela says
Looks like a fun weekend! I am always envious of people who can do messy buns that look cute. Mine always look like “grandma” buns or like I put my finger in a light socket! Any tips??
Melissa says
What a great weekend! Looks like it was a lot of fun and I love the ice cream buffet – so fun and ice cream is so refreshing this time of year!
J says
Once you finish The Seven or Eight Deaths of Stella Fortuna can you write up a little recap (maybe for Friday Favorites)?? I checked it out of the library but now the size of it seems a little daunting! Is it worth it??
Also, I just finished A Place for Us by Fatima Farheen Mirza and cannot recommend enough. Have tissues ready!
Julie says
Absolutely! Assuming I finish it by Friday (highly likely!) I’ll likely be including my thoughts in this Friday’s favorite post! Stay tuned!
Beth says
Cava is LIFE. Love it sooo much.
Also Chase walking Sadie – SWOON!
Julie says
I could eat it every day! So, so good!
Katie says
Hi Julie,
Can you please share information on Ryder’s life vest? My son is the same exact age (6/14/18) and he sweats like crazy in the one we have.
By the way, I’ve loved following your family for last 8 years as a loyal blog reader. Your optimism and positive outlook has kept me coming back and PBF is the first blog I recommend to friends!
Katie
Julie says
yes! it’s by stearns and we got it off amazon –> http://bit.ly/2YqERWJ it’s still not ryder’s favorite thing in the world but he definitely tolerates this one better than the others we’ve tried!!
Julie says
Also, thank you so much for your kind words and for reading for so long. I appreciate it so much! <3
Paige Cassandra Flamm says
What a fun little trip! Looks like you all had an awesome time!
Paige
http://thehappyflammily.com
Theresa says
I’ve been reading along with you for seven or eight years now and I have to say, I think one of my favorite things about your blog is all of the family photos that you share. I’m big on genealogy and preserving family history, and every time I see you post a photo of your whole family or of the boys and their grandparents, I think of how much they’ll love seeing those photos of them with their loved ones as they get older. It’s really special to be able to look back and see not just the places you’ve been and things you’ve done but who was there, how they looked, how old everyone was, etc. Great family memories!
Kristina says
Would you recommend this puddle jumper as a PFD for a toddler? We’re going on a lake vacation with our 16 month old this month and I need to order one ASAP! I do not foresee him enjoying wearing anything like this so any personal experience is welcomed – Thanks 🙂
Julie says
I would!! He doesn’t love it but I have yet to hear of a PFD a toddler actually enjoys until they’re big enough for a puddle jumper. This was the one that we’ve had the most success with so far though!
rachel simmons says
Ryans mad scientist hair in that picture of him and ryder is cracking me up!!! LOL
Katie says
Can I ask where your green jumpsuit in the group picture is from? It’s so cute!