I spent Friday evening through Sunday morning in Jacksonville, Florida for the baby shower my mom and I teamed up to throw for my sister and brother-in-law’s baby! Their little one is due on September 25 (Leslie is 33 weeks pregnant) and seeing Leslie’s beautiful growing belly was so wonderful and so, so special to me. I cannot wait to become an aunt and love on their little one in less than two months! AH!
When we started thinking through the logistics of the shower, I figured it would be easiest for me to travel to Florida for the weekend with Ryder and since Leslie and Ross wanted to see their littlest nephew again, we booked our flight for Friday afternoon and headed south!
I was waaay less nervous flying this time since I had some baby travel under my belt thanks to Chase and made sure to keep my luggage and baby gear as streamlined as possible. (I had a few Instagram message requests for my baby travel tips, so definitely check out this detailed travel post if that is of interest: Flying with a Baby For the First Time.)
I gate-checked my stroller, car seat and suitcase, wore Ryder through security in my Baby K’Tan and only packed the essentials in my diaper bag backpack. I was so stressed by an overly full diaper bag on my first flight with Chase because I couldn’t find anything that I needed when I needed it, so I kept my diaper bag limited to diapers, wipes, a change of clothes packed in a Ziploc (<– key just in case a blowout occurred!), a pacifier, burp cloth and swaddle blanket in addition to my personal stuff (phone, wallet and Kindle). I carried my Boppy pillow on as well which was wonderful since it allowed me to comfortably nurse and hold Ryder during the flight.
I was seated in an aisle seat in the very last row of the plane which I LOVED since it allowed me to get up without feeling annoying. Ryder was an angel baby during the flight and slept most of the time — a huge perk of traveling with a very small baby! I was even able to read my book which shocked me because that would’ve been a pipe dream on my first flight with Chase.
To those who said it’s easier to travel with babies when they’re younger, you were SO right. I definitely think an 8-week-old is a million times easier than an 8-month-old when it comes to travel and I’m grateful our travel went as well as it did. (A super-short flight and sitting next to two young sisters who slept most of the flight helped, too!)
Leslie’s baby shower began at 11 a.m. on Saturday and my mom, Ryder and I arrived early to set everything up before Leslie and her guests arrived. (We set Ryder up in the bathroom with a noise machine and his Rock ‘n’ Play and he snoozed for a good portion of the shower.)
(Note: I owe a huge thank you to Leslie’s friend Kate for taking pictures of Leslie’s special day as a gift to Leslie! She is a professional photographer and did such an amazing job. I really appreciate her willingness to let me share her photos on my blog and encourage you to check out Balsam Photography if you’re looking for gorgeous photos in the Jacksonville area!)
My mom and I stuck to a baby animals theme for the shower since Leslie and Ross are going to be surprised by the sex of their baby and Etsy made the shower planning a breeze!
It’s been a while since I’ve planned a bridal or baby shower and Etsy has really exploded since then and made everything really easy with many stores offering downloadable templates, adorable themed banners and more. (We used a woodland animals downloadable template for the signs, favors and shower games and it worked great!)
We spent a couple of hours eating light bites of food and delicious desserts and I loved reconnecting with Leslie’s sweet friends and meeting some of her friends whom I’ve heard a lot about throughout the years. Everyone seemed thrilled to celebrate Leslie and Ross’ little one and they received so many generous and adorable baby gifts.
(The tiny Oreo onesie was a huge hit with our Oreo-lovin’ girl!)
After the shower, my mom, Ryder and I headed back to Leslie and Ross’ house to unload gifts and hang out with Ross, Ross’ mom and Leslie’s friend Colleen (they’ve been friends since second grade!) who flew in town from Chicago for the shower.
My dad joined our gang for a bit when he arrived back in Jacksonville in the late afternoon after a spearfishing trip to Key West.
I need to take a quick departure from the baby shower talk to tell you guys something completely insane: A BULL SHARK bit my dad’s hand during one of his dives last week when it came after him after he shot a grouper in 110 feet of water. He’s completely fine but how scary is that!?! He thinks the shark was around 7 feet and we’re incredibly grateful he is okay and only has some bite marks on his hand to show for the run-in. Isn’t that crazy!? So scary!
Clearly my dad’s bull shark story captured all of our attention but we also spent plenty of time talking about baby names, baby expectations vs. realities, etc. It was such a wonderful afternoon and the kind of afternoon where hours of conversation feel like minutes. I loved having some extra downtime with my family, Ross’ mom and Colleen.
Ryder and I caught a late morning flight back to Charlotte on Sunday and it was another relatively smooth travel experience. I had a pretty rough headache for most of Sunday so we spent the afternoon around our house and I worked for a bit so I could get this post up today and did my best to accomplish a little meal planning as well.
I hope you all had a wonderful weekend!!!
Melissa says
Wow, what a beautiful weekend and baby shower! The cake looked incredible! I’m sure Leslie felt very loved and cared for. It’s so scary to hear about the bull shark! I’m so glad your dad is okay!
Laura says
Looks like Leslie had a wonderful shower! Everyone looks great, and I especially love your dress. I am glad your flights went well, and that your dad is okay! That is definitely scary! Enjoy your Monday- I hope the headache is gone….headaches are the worst.
Amanda Peterson says
Please tell us where your adorable coral dress is from!
Julie says
Hi!! I actually bought it about three years ago on RueLaLa but the brand is Trina Turk!
Fiona @ Get Fit Fiona says
The decorations for the shower are so cute!
Amber @ Busy, Bold, Blessed says
I cannot believe that happened to your dad! Glad he’s ok!
Looks like a gorgeous shower. I’m so impressed with your easy going flight plan. I cannot imagine flying with my little one, but she’s 10 months now so much too wiggly 😉
Ashley @ A Lady Goes West says
Hi Julie! Leslie is waiting to find out the gender too? So cool! As far as flying, we’ve taken Brady on 7 roundtrip flights already and he’s 10 months, and I will say it is getting harder to manage as he gets older. I’ve flown alone with him twice and always chose the window seat for nursing, but then yes — a pain to crawl over people to get to the bathroom. I tried listening to podcasts when I was alone with him as some sort of entertainment, but if he was awake, he would pull the earphones out of my ear hahha — so spent much of the flight just keeping him contained — very impressed you were able to read! Ohhhh babies!! Traveling used to be WAY different! Happy Monday and hope you have a good start to your week.
Kaitlyn @ Powered by Sass says
WHAT THE HECK? Okay, the shower was absolutely beautiful and your outfit ROCKED (have you ever linked to your shoes? Love ’em!)… BUT A BULL SHARK???? Sharks and open water are two of my biggest fears, so your dad right now is basically a rockstar. But also living my biggest fear. I’m SO happy he’s okay! … did you eat the grouper? Like, was it worth it? – Kaitlyn | http://www.poweredbysass.com
Julie says
isn’t that crazy!? and yes, he somehow got the grouper in the end so it will eventually be eaten! (they get a bunch of fish on these trips and freeze them.)
Laura Swanson says
Were you worried about Ryder getting sick with the travel? We debated going to a family wedding we would have to fly for with our son (who will be 7 weeks old) and our dr advised against it since he won’t have had his 2 month vaccines yet. (totally not judging you at all and just curious)
Also, what did your Dad do when the shark bit him?! Did it bite him and then swim off or did it come after him? Did your Dad need to see the doctor? That is quite the story!!!
Julie says
i thought about it but honestly wasn’t too worried. i have a few friends who don’t vaccinate their kids and their little ones have been totally fine so i figured we’d likely be okay as well but definitely listen to your gut and your doctor!! <3
and thankfully my dad didn't need to go to the hospital or anything because there was a man on his boat who is also a medic who was able to tend to his hand. his hand shockingly doesn't look all that bad for what happened!!!
Melissa says
Pretty sure I saw you in the Charlotte airport Sunday morning! You were looking like a pro!
Julie says
no way! how cool! hope you were off to somewhere fun!!!
Erin m. says
Whoa! Glad your dad is ok!! Love your dress! Congrats to Leslie and Ross!!
Lynnlee says
Love your dress & shoes!! I saw the above comment about the dress being Trina Turk, but where are the shoes from?
Julie says
they’re nine west! but they’re also from a couple of years ago. 🙂
Kate says
Crazy story about the shark! We have a home in the keys and our one friend is a captain and avid spear fisherman. He had a similar run in with a hammerhead over a grouper. Fought him off with the spear gun. Thank God all are safe!! I’m thankful my husband sticks to golf 🙂
Julie says
oh wow! i haven’t heard of a hammerhead doing that, too! yikes! so glad he was okay as well!!
Pamela Lambert says
Scary about your dad!
Suchot says
Omigosh how crazy about your dad!! Glad he’s okay! The shower looked so fun…that cake!!! I’m getting so excited for my daughter to meet her baby cousin. Every day she asks me “I get to hold baby?”
Kelly @ Bored to Badass says
The shower turned out GREAT!! So beautiful…Etsy is literally the best. I don’t have kids, but people who wait until the birth to find out the sex are some kind of superhuman being!! Does that fall into the same category as willpower?? I think it does…and I can’t even refrain from eating cookies at night!! Can’t wait to see what they have!!
Kayla says
Wow! It looks like it was a beautiful weekend! Your dress is so cute!! Omg, so scary what happened to your Dad! Ah!! I am glad he is okay!! I hope you are having a great week, Julie! Xoxo
Laura S says
What did you put in the party favor bags? I’m throwing a shower with the exact same downloadable theme from Etsy. Trying to figure out party favor ideas!
Rachel says
You and your mom planned such an adorable baby shower for Leslie! So exciting that Ryder will have a cousin so close to his age.
Megan says
Love the outfit you wore! What’s the brand of the shoes you wore? Super cute.
olive jason says
that was a lovely collection of photos and that baby is too much adoreable ..hope yourl guys had a amazing weekend.